In Getting to Yes, Fischer and Ury, lay out four guidelines for principled negotiations.
- Separate people from the problem
- Focus on interests versus position
- Invent options for mutual gain
- Insist on objective criteria
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Separate people from the problem
She's trying to cheat me.
No!
Separate people from the problem
Both companies should benefit from this deal.
Yes!
Focus on interests not positions
I'm not taking less than $32K.
No!
Focus on interests not positions
I want a job that allows me time with my family.
Yes!
...your kids won't leave things in my yard...
If we share the cost of a fence...
...and your dogs won't leave things in my yard.
Yes!
Invent options for mutual gain
Insist on objective criteria
Yes!
Let's use the Kelly Blue Book to see how much the car is worth.