I have noticed that some of your belongings are on my side of the room. I am beginning to wonder if you think we are sharing the whole room,rather than splitting a room and each having half of the room. Is this a fair assessment of your views? How do you see the situation?
Yes, that’s a fair assessment of my views. What do you mean when yousay that you want us to each have half of the room? I thought we were sharingthe whole room. Can you explain your perspective?
I am not comfortable with sharing my things, and I value having space just for myself. Although we are roommates, I thought we were splitting the room, where we each had around half. I would appreciate it if you kept your belongings on your side of the room. Is there anything I have been doing that has been frustrating you?
I understand. I’m sorry for making assumptions and leaving my things on your desk and in your personal area. I feel overwhelmed about putting my things away when you dump them on my side of the room. Is it possible if you could let me know if my things end up on your side of the room, so that I can take care of them myself?
Well, if I do anything that bothers you, please be sure to let me know as well. I have to go to class now though, so see you later!
Of course! And thank you for explaining your perspective and what I can be doing better. I am glad that we had this conversation.
Of course! Thank you for letting me know and I am glad that we could work this out.