While Keitty is scrolling to her social media account she saw the post of her friend Belle about her achievement. Belle got a lot of likes, so she felt jealous and envious.
I will show them that i can do the same thing, I’m going to post about this right now and show everyone how successful I am as well.
I want to brag a little and let people know I’m doing great!
שקופית: 2
I'm going to call Belle and show her my post.
RINGGG RINGGG RINGGG!!!!!
שקופית: 3
Hello Belle! let's meet at the star bucks. I want to tell you something!
OK SURE!
שקופית: 4
I really wanted to post about my achievements, my medals and certificates. I want to show the internet how successful i am!
Wait a second. Before you hit ‘post,’ think about this. Are you just showing off?
STAR BUCKS STAR BUCKS STAR BUCKS
What about your friends who are struggling or haven’t had any success lately? This could come off as insensitive, even arrogant. You don’t want people to think you’re bragging, do you?
שקופית: 5
The Id seeks immediate emotional relief by oversharing, not considering privacy or boundaries.
How about something more like, ‘Feeling so grateful for a new opportunity! It’s been a journey, but I’m thankful to everyone who supported me along the way.
The Superego is concerned with how others might perceive the post and emphasizes humility. It urges you to think about how sharing this achievement might make others feel, especially those who are going through a rough time in their own careers.
שקופית: 6
From then on, Bookeitty celebrates her success with humility and considerate to others.
Okay, let’s find a middle ground. You worked hard and deserve to celebrate, but there’s a way to share the news without sounding arrogant.
I can share my feelings, but in a more controlled way. I’ll open up a little, but maybe not go into too much detail. That way, I can connect with others without oversharing."
Onward and upward!’ You can express your excitement and still stay humble and kind to others who might not be in the same place.
The Ego helps find a compromise, allowing you to express yourself without crossing personal boundaries.