TO COME ACROSS
To seem to have a particular personality trait or make a certain impression
Example: When I'm stressed out I can sometimes come across as bossy.
TO COME ACROSS
To meet or find someone or something unexpectedly
Example: Martha was on a morning walk when shecame acrossan old friend's parents.
Sometimes when you are stressed you can come across as angry!
How did my presentation go? What did people think?
You won't believe it! I've just come across your parents outside the cafe!